Six Questions to Ask Before Choosing A Family Photographer

Today more than ever, families have endless options when choosing a photographer for family portraits–from studio and on-location photographers to traditional portrait, lifestyle, and documentary artists. Each photographer brings not only a different style but also a unique personality and approach to sessions.

Feeling overwhelmed? Don’t worry! These six questions to ask before choosing a family photographer will help you find the right fit for your family.

Table of Contents

1. Style – What Family Photography Style Fits You Best?

2. Location – Where Do You Want Your Family Portraits Taken?

3. Service – What Type of Experience Do You Want?

4. Photo Products – How Do You Want to Enjoy Your Images?

5. Personality – Do You Feel a Connection with the Photographer?

6. Budget – What’s Your Comfort Range?

Bonus: Check Local Directories for Recommendations

FAQs About Choosing a Family Photographer

1. Style – What Family Photography Style Fits You Best?

Before booking, ask yourself: what kind of images make your heart light up?

• Do you prefer traditional portraits with everyone posed and smiling at the camera?
• Are you drawn to lifestyle photography, which focuses on connection, laughter, and candid moments?
• Or do you love a documentary approach, where the photographer simply observes and captures life as it unfolds?

Take time to browse a photographer’s website, blog, and Instagram. If the style you see online matches what you want for your family, chances are you’ll love the results.

My style is predominantly “lifestyle” with some traditional and documentary mixed in occasionally. Families that work with me often tell me they end up cherishing the playful, candid images most — like the ones where kids are being tickled, parents are laughing, or siblings are whispering secrets.

2. Location – Where to Take Family Photos in NJ

Think about the setting that feels most meaningful:

• A cozy in-home session where your family feels most relaxed.
• A bright, professional studio environment.
• An outdoor session at a local park, beach, or even your family’s favorite spot.

Knowing your preference will help you narrow down photographers who specialize in that type of session.

I love photographing families outdoors in NJ’s beautiful parks and gardens, especially at golden hour. But I also adore in-home sessions, where small details — like your child curled up on the couch with you — make for tender, authentic images.

3. Service – What Experience Do You Want from Your Family Photographer?

Booking family photos isn’t just about the pictures — it’s about the experience.

• Do you want someone to guide you through the entire process — from wardrobe help to product selection?
• Or would you prefer a more minimal approach where you book online, show up, and download digital files?

Neither option is wrong — but knowing what you value will help you choose a photographer who matches your expectations.

I know how overwhelming it can feel to pick outfits and wonder if your kids will cooperate. That’s why I walk families through styling, suggest locations, and keep sessions playful so even reluctant kids (or spouses!) end up enjoying themselves.

4. Photo Products – How Do You Want to Enjoy Your Images?

Think about the end result: how do you want your photos to live in your home?

• Framed wall art or fine art prints
• A professionally designed album you can flip through with your kids
• A collection of digital files for easy sharing

When you know what products matter most to you, you’ll be able to choose a photographer whose offerings align with your vision.

Personally, I believe in the magic of printed photographs. Every year, I create a family photo book for my own family, and paging through those albums together has become one of our favorite traditions. hat experience is why I offer albums and wall art in addition to digital images — because I want your memories to last beyond the screen.

5. Personality – Do You Feel a Connection with the Photographer? 

Your comfort level matters just as much as your photographer’s skills. If your photographer’s personality doesn’t mesh with yours (or your kids’), the session may feel forced.

That’s why I encourage families to chat with their photographer before booking. Even a quick phone call can give you a sense of whether their energy feels right for your family.

A little about me: I’m naturally an introvert, but during sessions I’m talkative, encouraging, and often laughing right alongside your kids. I notice the beauty in small gestures — the way a child clings to mom’s hand, or how siblings tease and then hug. Those in-between moments are what I live to capture.

6. Budget– How Much Does a Family Photographer Cost?

Family photography pricing varies widely, depending on a photographer’s experience, services, and product offerings. Some photographers focus on digital packages, while others offer a full-service experience with albums, prints, and wall art.

Decide what’s most important to you — affordability, products, or an all-inclusive experience — and then look for a photographer who aligns with your budget and your vision.

My families often say that while professional photography is an investment, the memories are priceless — something their kids will cherish long after they’ve grown.

Bonus: Check Local Directories for Recommendations

Still unsure? Try browsing reputable directories like:

National Association of Professional Portrait and Child Photographers (NAPCP)

Hulafrog’s Most Loved Photographers (I was honored to be voted Most Loved Photographer in the Clark–Westfield area in 2020!)

Local directories and reviews can give you insight into both a photographer’s work and their client experience.

FAQs About Choosing a Family Photographer

Q: How do I choose the right family photographer?
A: Start by looking at the photographer’s style (traditional, lifestyle, or documentary), their personality, and the type of experience they provide. Ask yourself if their portfolio feels like the kind of images you’d love for your own family.

Q: What questions should I ask a family photographer before booking?
A: Ask about their style, location options, the experience they provide, what products they offer (digital, prints, albums), pricing, and whether their personality feels like a fit for your family.

Q: What style of family photography is best?
A: The “best” style is the one that makes your heart happy! Some families love classic, posed portraits; others prefer lifestyle sessions full of natural interactions and emotion. There’s no wrong choice — just what feels right for your family.

Q: How much does a family photographer usually cost?
A: Pricing varies widely depending on the photographer’s experience and services. In New Jersey, you’ll find everything from all-inclusive digital packages to full-service experiences with custom prints and albums. Think about your budget and what products matter most to you.

Q: When is the best time to book a family photo session in NJ?
A: Fall is the most popular season, so book early if you want those beautiful autumn colors. Many families also love spring blooms or golden summer evenings. The best time is whenever your family feels ready and excited to capture memories together.

Final Thoughts

Choosing the right family photographer isn’t just about finding pretty pictures — it’s about finding someone whose style, service, and personality align with your family.

By asking these six questions, you’ll feel more confident in your choice — and ensure your family photos are not only beautiful but also an enjoyable experience you’ll remember fondly.

Are We A Good Fit?

Choosing the right family photographer is about more than style or budget — it’s about finding someone you feel comfortable with, who sees your family the way you do. We might be a great match if:

• You love to laugh, play, and cuddle with your kids and spouse.
• You prefer images that highlight your family’s connection and personality over perfectly posed portraits.
• You believe that the little, everyday gestures — a hug, a tickle, a tear, or a giggle — are worth remembering.
• You want photos that feel authentic, emotive, and timeless, not stiff or staged.

As an introvert by nature, I may be quiet in some settings, but during sessions I’m chatty and encouraging. I get excited about sunsets, pretty light, and the innocence of childhood. I believe a mother comforting her crying baby is just as beautiful as a big joyful smile.

I also have a soft spot for shy kids — having been one myself, I know how to gently connect with children who need a little extra time to warm up.

Most of all, I truly want to give you a wonderful experience and create beautiful images that reflect your unique family story.

Browse my Family Photography Portfolio to see more of my work and decide if we’re the right fit for your next family session.

Want to learn more about a family portrait & lifestyle session with me? Visit my FAQ page.

If you’re looking for family photos that feel natural, joyful, and stress-free, I’d love to be your photographer. Get in touch HERE!